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Spurred on by the optimism that the New Year brings, 1 million Britons are expected to get online for a date today - the first day back in the office after the Christmas break.This time last year saw a 94 per cent increase in people singing up compared to their daily average.'In my experience, selfies on dating sites either involve the guy snapping a quick picture of himself as he loads his profile (no effort made) or stripping off in a desperate attempt to show off his buff body while trying out a moody male model look (far too much effort made).

That suggests you won't take dating seriously either.A private client told me just this weekend that she’s quitting online dating after three bad dates in a row.Here is what I wrote back to her: First of all, I’ve had EVERY bad dating experience you can possibly imagine.They don't want to feel like an item on a supermarket shelf that you might simply pass by because it's not on your list.Describe yourself as a person - how you like to spend your time, what you love to do. Good spelling implies you're intelligent but more importantly it shows you've taken care and effort writing your profile.But also don't comment on something too obvious, like 'The picture from New York looks nice. 'You have stellar dress sense' rather than 'You're so beautiful'.

I was curious as to what your real opinion is of online dating.

In the end the right person will accept you for who you are, baggage and all.'Profiles with 100 to 200 words received 10 per cent more messages, and users with positive identifiers such as confident and outgoing, received 23 per cent more incoming messages and 4 per cent more replies to their outgoing ones.

'It's encouraging when you see a profile where a man specified books, music and fitness as interests because it makes them appear well rounded,' says online dater Lauren Keith, who is currently dating someone she met on Plenty Of Fish.'It's off-putting when a man only seems interested in going out with his mates and getting drunk.

Most of the people that write about online dating write about what’s wrong with it. I mean, that’s what news is – emphasize the bad, misery loves company, etc.

Turn on the TV and it’s not about kittens being saved from trees, but drive-by shootings.

Aside from my own luck and the trendy radio ads and sexy commercials, it seems as if no one’s happy.