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The goal isn’t to tell your life’s story, it’s to hook – to get women to invest their attention.For example, under “favorite books, movies, etc.” most people just list shows – just facts. Long paragraphs only work if every part of them hooks.
Even if you don’t do online dating, these principles apply to any writing or storytelling you do, in person or in text. Here’s how: The classic writing advice “show, don’t tell” also applies to online dating.I stack my profile with about a dozen different twitter sized anecdotes girls can ask me about. There’s a reason people say “let’s get coffee sometime” rather than “let’s talk for thirty minutes before walking back to my place for naked thrusty time.” Giving an alibi (“I’m just coming over to do laundry”) allows girls who don’t feel comfortable directly seeking a hook-up to rationalize meeting you, the same way inviting a girl back to your place to finish a bottle of wine is more likely to work, than just inviting her back for sex.Any artform, cool activity, or interesting place you’d like to share makes a good alibi. So you’ve got a killer profile that hooks, and shows girls who you are. The same way you wrote a profile – except you only need twitter sized message that hooks. The first thing any girl will do if your message piques her interest is go read your profile – which will be tight. I’ve gotten laid from this (not original) opener: All I really said was “you’re cool, I’m cool, let’s fuck,” but the writing hooks, and shows who I am.For inspiration, check out delicioustacos list of 44 OKCupid Openers, but write your own to filter for your personality. The goal of messaging is to get a number or meetup. If your first message doesn’t hook or you get a shit-test, pass the shit test and hook first.An example: Once you meetup, treat it like a regular date.For example, look at these two different versions: I grew up in Brazil, the land of jiu-jitsu and models, where the men have big muscles, and the women have bigger asses.
It was heaven for a teenager with high testosterone. I feel growing up in another country has allowed me to acknowledge my own privilege as a white cisgendered male, and appreciate the diversity of other less patriarchal cultures..
2) For our first date, we can go anywhere except Mc Grady’s, because I’m banned for life after firing a plastic arrow into the owner’s eye’s arm on Halloween, while dressed as Cupid.
In my defense, I was aiming for his girlfriend, but confessing to flirting with his girl probably won’t get me back in. The other never has to explicitly tell us he’s funny or does crazy stuff, because he shows us. Consider this writing from Roosh’s his readers “but seriously, that girl was really slutty,” they might not believe him.
For example, look at these two profiles: 1) I’m the class clown among my friends.
I’m really good at making people laugh, and like to have a good time.
Try writing something like: If you write that, expect a couple messages asking “lol – what movie did you show her? Girls will disqualify you for one bad line, but it might take three to a message. People forget that Tucker Max initially became famous from a hook-up application on his website – i.e. In it, he wrote girls could come over to do his laundry for him.