Men dating advice
Most women over 50 have been in relationships with men who don't care much about what they have to say.
And besides, who would want to be “loved” for a bank account. But when a guy leads his conversations by talking about his money, his accomplishments, or his status, he’s shooting himself in the foot. In order to get a better idea on how Testing happens every day.It happens in your office, it happens at the bar, it happens with girls.I track the conversation -- I'm not leaping from one topic to another. But even if you don't like listening, LISTEN anyway. • First, you're not as fascinating as you think you are. I don't care if you're Jon Hamm or Joe Scarborough or the head of an investment bank or ambassador to Ghana. We’ve both seen it: A rich guy soiling his chances to find an intimate relationship, or really, any relationship, because he leads his conversations by directly flaunting his wealth. She quickly sees a guy who’s overcompensating by “showing off.” She sees a guy who doesn’t value himself.
While every other guy would kill to have his money, the rich guy directly hurts himself because of how he references his wealth, in his conversations. For the rich guy who doesn’t know better, this pattern repeats and worsens with each repetition.
• But by far the most important advice I can give is LISTEN! Yes, money is important (I don't have much, so I can only assume from what I've heard), and being attractive is great (I'm not Clooney but I try my best.) But listening trumps them all. Being genuinely interested in hearing about their histories, their successes, their disappointments, their journeys yet to take. • And fourth, listening is an amazingly under-appreciated talent. Hearing someone's story and details about their life is what it's all about, as far as I'm concerned.
I am always stunned by how most people just don't listen, and how far one can get simply by listening.
She can’t get aroused or fall in real love with his money. I’m sure the women reading this would agree that those character traits are highly attractive in a boyfriend, partner, or husband. Say he leads the conversation with his wealth, and a woman reciprocates.
As opposed to valuing himself say, because of his traits that helped him create that wealth. It’s forgetting that it’s the man himself the woman must be attracted to. What does he do the next time he meets a quality woman? More talk of his money, his status, and his accomplishments. But even if not a direct money exchange, sure, showboating will attract some women.
So instead of telling her how you’re worth a million bucks, lead her through an experience where she feels like a million bucks.