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[The women] always ask me what I do for a living, if I wanna get married and leave the city, and it’s so exhausting.” But while some dudes lament their confirmed player status, Notas says there’s actually value in being a womanizer.“A lot of marital troubles and divorce stem from people settling in relationships that aren’t compatible for them,” says Notas.
We all want the next best thing.” Tech inventor Ben Way, who moved to the Upper East Side from the UK, has also felt the pressure to stay single, since most of his friends aren’t in relationships — and blames this partly on American culture.Meet local New York single women right now at Date Other New York online dating sites charge for memberships, we are 100% free for everything.“We have this mentality of, ‘Why should I settle for Susan, who’s beautiful and smart, when I could turn the corner and meet Jessica, who’s just as smart and beautiful?’” Garofola meets most of the women he dates on Tinder, Bumble and the League.We're like that Eminem song: You only get one shot. We live in a city of go-getters and we most likely are one ourselves, so you better be able to make a plan. Once we're into you, we will make you a priority over all of our 12,000 other priorities.
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“A lot of my married friends tell me it’s horrible being tied down, and that women will just divorce you and take half,” says Eric Borich, a 32-year-old portfolio manager at Oxford Property Group.
Borich cites pressure to keep dating around so that his married friends can live vicariously through his enviable lifestyle.
“In Europe, you’re either friends with benefits or monogamous,” says the 34-year-old, who now uses matchmaking service Lasting Connections.
“In America, you’re either friends with benefits, going out or this big area in the middle of ‘you’re just seeing each other.’ This totally screws up dating.” Nick Notas, a Boston-based dating expert and blogger at Nick Notas.com, sympathizes with these busy bachelors.
Garofola isn’t the only guy who is fed up with playing the field.