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Finding out that I could still enjoy a physical relationship was …' She searches for the word. I thought that whole side of my life had died, but with Michael it's been revived.' From Wayne Rooney to Tiger Woods, barely a day seems to pass without male infidelity making the headlines.Female infidelity, however, has a far lower profile and, in popular culture at least, tends to have terrifying consequences.
Laura, 51, a reflexologist from Hertfordshire, with a teenage son, has had three affairs over the past 10 years with men she has met on various websites.I ended up stuffing all my new buys inside the legs of a manky old tracksuit.I washed them by hand, locked in the bathroom, and dried them with a hairdryer as I didn't dare hang them up.' Tall, strong-featured and dressed in a cashmere sweater and wool trousers, Sheila is the kind of woman you see in the aisles of Waitrose, the front row of the school carol service.'Usually we just have a snog and a fumble but two have come back to my hotel room.It sounds dangerous, talking about it like that, but I trust my instincts to know who's safe and who's a serial killer.'We have sex, we chat, we go back to our families,' Sheila tells me over a cappuccino.
'I'm not looking for a soul mate, I'm looking for physical release. The girls were small and sex with him had long been just another chore, like loading the dishwasher.
It's about passion and spontaneity – having sex in the shower and up against a wall, all the things you see in movies that just never happen when you're arguing over whose turn it is to wipe the kids' bottoms.' The advent of email and mobiles have made affairs easier to run than ever before in practical, if not emotional, terms.
Yet suspicious husbands are also dab hands at checking their wives' inboxes.
Instead they are searching for variety in an otherwise humdrum routine. 'Traditionally we believe a woman who has an affair is looking for emotional intimacy, whereas men are looking for sex. 'Women feel more powerful and in control and as a result there are certainly more women being unfaithful because they fancied somebody and were away for a weekend with the girls or on business and seized an opportunity.
Or it's a case of a woman being neglected in the bedroom in the way a man once was and wanting to find a way to scratch her itch.' For a wired generation, the automatic place to turn to for satisfaction is the internet.
She uses specialised software to make sure her computer shuts down moments after she uses it and its history is wiped clean.